My Word for 2013 is....

My friend, Kris, is so dear to me.  We get to spend time each week together at the Homeless Outreach, try to do lunch once a month, and chat when we can.  Recently she shared on her blog her word for 2013.  It made me think about having such a word.  What would choosing one word to add to living my daily life look like.  Could I do it? Do I want to do it?  But in the pit of my stomach, I was challenged.  Challenged to pray, seek, and think about a word...my word for 2013.  A word that would call me to action, to service, to gratitude, to give, to share, to contemplate over, to meditate on, to be a noun, to be an action verb. You see my word is LOVE.  

Love...an encompassing word.  So much to be said for it, about it, the lack of it.  It is also a word we take for granted and throw around for everything.  I had a friend say to me one time it really upset him when someone would say, I love McDonald's french fries.  For him using the word LOVE had such a deep, close to his soul meaning for him, it truly upsets him to see people throw the word around like yesterday's laundry.

So how will this word impact my life in 2013?  Will it make a difference to others in my community, my family, my friends, my world?  

In 1 Corinthians 13 we have the Love verses.  Many times this scripture is used in weddings but what if I read this everyday.  What if I truly apply the words to my life?  

Love is Patient....I'm not always a patient person.  

Love is Kind.....I'm  not always a kind person.

Love does not envy....Sometimes I envy others or my perception of what I think there life is like.

Love does not Boast....I come from a loud and proud family.

Love is not Proud....More layers for God to peel away.

Love is not Self-Seeking....Life cannot be just about me.

Love is not Rude....Ok, I've been working on this one for years.  Still working on it

Love is not easily angered....Loving people who do not love others angers me.

Love keeps no record of Wrong Doings....I don't, well most of the time

Love does not Delight in Evil....I got this one!

Love rejoices with Truth....The truth will set us free.

Love Protects....Even when we think it hasn't

Love Trusts.... Without trust we can have nothing else.

Love Hopes....Hope for a world of love.

Love Perseveres....Love is more than french fries.

Love NEVER Fails....We fail as humans but Love does not fail.

Whew, this is just one verse that speaks about Love.

There's the great commandment: LOVE the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul; LOVE your neighbor as yourself.

Loving God sometimes seems to be the simple and easy thing to do.  But when we look at the LOVE he has for us....I'm not sure we can even really begin to fathom it.

A verse that has become the biggest "poster" verse is John 3:16

For God so LOVED the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes on him will not perish but have everlasting life.

God Loves Me. I am to Love Him.

God Loves You.  I am to Love you.

God Loves his creation and created us for his glory.  We are to love one another.

So what will 2013 look like for me?  I'm not sure but I hope, pray and cling to Love.

On this day, December 31, 2012.  I'm thankful for the love I have.  The love of a husband for the past 28 years of my life.  The love of a son for 21 years.  The love of my parents and brother for 43 years. The love of family, friends.  Some who I have spent a lifetime with, some who I have only known in 2012.  I've learned that Love comes in all shapes and sizes. 

 It crosses all socio-economic barriers, if we will allow it too.

I look forward and I'm a bit scared of where love may take me in the next year.  

What do I need to find a fresh love for?

Who do I need to share love with?

What barriers are up that do not allow me to love?

LOVE....4 letters that I pray will change my life and yours in 2013 and beyond.

Without Love I am nothing.

No title, the page is blank

The blank page...




I'm not sure where to begin during this Advent season, so I stare at the blank page.  It isn't because I have nothing to write about -  it's the task of taking all that swirls around in my head and put it to paper.

I look forward each year to Advent.  I enjoy the season of Hope, Joy, Peace and Love.  I long to read and study during the season.  To rejuvenate. To see where life has taken me from the past year's Advent and wonder where the next will lead.



But a blank page, really?

 Yes.


 My mind races over the joys of the past 12 months. The hope, peace and love that's been there.
 Along with the despair, struggles, anger, sorrow, and frustration.

Among it all, I hold to the One who gives me hope, joy, peace and love...



But for now the page is blank...Merry Christmas.

What is normal?

The pains of normal or not being normal, everyone has them.

I look back over my life and some of my relationships with family and friends have been "normal" while others, well.........not so much.  But what does this really mean and how do we adapt to whatever "our normal" is?

I've learned over the past three years that Bennett going off to college brought a different type of normalcy to the house than when he joined the Air Force. When a child goes off to college most of us know they will be coming home a few times a semester, parents go and visit their kids at school, you meet their new friends, you still get to do their laundry. When a child joins the military everyone has to learn a new normal.  This isn't bad it just something new to learn. The longest we have gone without seeing Bennett is 7 months and that was a surprise to us because we actually thought it was going to be a little more than a year before we saw him again. When your child is in the service they have so much to adapt to, so much to make their own normal....meeting new people, then maybe saying goodbye quicker than hoped, moving to new places, leaving behind what they know and have been comfortable with, they are independent and now do their own laundry! Everyone in the family has to find new ways to make all of our schedules work so we carve out that special calling time on Sunday evening. This is our new normal.

Others face different types of normal....a passing of a loved one, a divorce, a loss of a job, a bad grade, a new church, the list could go on for miles.

How we cope, grow, and press on, is different for each of us in search of our normal.  I've learned that no one is "normal" and sometimes the Norman Rockwell picture just explodes or is enough to make you want to puke. Everyone must find their path.  Their way to stay connected to those they love or things they love to do in spite of the ever changing world around them.

My mom recently shared with me she has come to terms that her remaining years on earth will not be as she had pictured as a young woman.  She is excepting her normal.  This for her means my family will not be living close by and Sunday dinners with all the family are not a common theme for us. She isn't alone in wishing families still lived close by and shared weekly meals together but she had to understand her normal is a few special dinners a year.

A friend who lost her spouse said, I just had to learn how to be me without him right here with me. She isn't alone in having lost a loved one but she had to find her new normal.

Another friend's son is heading into the teenage years. Gone is the normal cuddle time it is replaced by the tempermental, hormonal teenager.  Ah, the new normal for a few years.

A long distance relationship is not the same as when you leave in the same city.
 Both can have normalcy - it is their own.

During this Advent season I am reflecting on the birth of Christ, the life of Christ, the death and resurrection of Christ.  None of it was "normal".


So the next time someone says to me - that's just not normal.  I think I will respond, What is normal?

Three important days in November...what about the other 362

Over the past few months I have watched people I know spew vile words, pictures, rhetoric, be "scripture bullies" and more on social media.   I joined a friend in a political fast not because I did not have an opinion or beliefs but because I like to have conversations and try to understand a person's view that may be the same or differ from mine.  Over the past 10 years my opinions, beliefs and practices of life have evolved into who I am today.  But I also pray to keep growing as a person over the next years of my life too and not become stagnant and stubborn in a way of life. Elections come and go, political life is so removed from the daily life of the rest of the world that sometimes I can even laugh about it.  A state senator for KY said in 2010 he was spending the next 2 years making sure the President was not re-elected.  I see this senator really cares about the state he is to be serving. I also do not get my news from the "standard" media.  To find out what is going on in the world, one really has to search out other sources of news.

 If Americans are so passionate about change then we should begin in our own communities; volunteer to mentor a child, visit a senior citizen who has no family near by, serve others, shop local, support your farmers, support Veterans, encourage your employer to think outside the box, enjoy your local parks, recycle, get to know your local government and what the struggles are in the community and plans for growth.  These are just a few things that anyone can do but it takes motivation.
 It requires action not just words.
                                                     It requires time not just a rant.
It requires us to think about someone else not just our self.

We will not always get "our way" so for many that just means stay at home in my own bubble and complain about everything. Throw $5 in the red kettle or offering plate and say I did my part.

(I'm sorry the last two sentences were part of my rant!)

November also brings us Veteran's Day.  I have family members who are Veterans.  Friends who are Veterans and a son who is currently serving in the US Air Force.  I am also working with a homeless Veteran and have others clients that are Veterans.
As a child I remember going to the Veteran's Day parade in Charleston WV.  Standing on the sidewalk seeing flags waving, signs of gratitude, and clapping as the Veterans went by.  I remember when Bennett was a boy and he would see someone in uniform or know they were a Veteran, he always wanted to meet them.  In the 4th grade his teacher's husband was serving out of the country and Bennett's class wrote him letters of encouragement.  Bennett received a special coin from him and has it to this day.

I remember meeting with one of my young homeless Veterans back in Charleston while working at Manna Meal.  He had been discharged because of a drug addiction he acquired while being in the sand pit.  So for him this means he is not a Veteran, he is someone who served and fought in battle but will not receive Veteran benefits nor can he have that title.  He is one of many.  As he and I spoke tears fell down this 24 year old's face.  He said, I've lost everything.  My best friend and girl friend just died from a heroine overdose.  I'm in treatment and I have no job skills.  I served 3 years in the Army as a mercenary, my only job skill is killing people and I don't think that is useful here at home."  Another Veteran had served in the Marine Corps.  Tragedy had struck his family and sent him to a dark place in his soul.  Nightmares haunted him anytime his eyes were closed. He worked 2 jobs to try to survive. A friend of mine is 75 years old, served as a Marine many years ago. He is a retired pastor who prays for peace in the world.  Another friend an Army Veteran who is in his mid 40's is a pastor in KY, he prays for peace in the world.

                         Some day my son will be a Veteran of the United States of America Air Force.

Pray for those who have served, are serving, and will serve.  Pray for peace.

Next comes Thanksgiving....this Thursday.  This day for many is all about football and food. Some families have traditions, some families have none, some families only gather on "that" day, others gather whenever the gang can all be there.  My family's Thanksgivings have changed through the years.  We use to gather at my grandparents homes when I was a kid.  My Mama Edens was all about the traditional meal with plenty of mashed potatoes for me.  My Mama Meadows was about traditional dessert but you never knew what the meal would be.  Her pecan pie is still my favorite.  My mom makes her recipe every year. Then came time for my Mom and Dad to begin our own tradition and well we are a no tradition family.  My brother use to work shift work so we gathered whenever he was off.  My mom cooked whatever she wanted; lasagna, roast beef, baked steak, turkey...let's not forget the year we had Turkey Ham! This is still our "tradition" at Mom's house.  My brother no longer works shift work but I no longer live nearby and the grandkids are all grown.  On the other side of my family, my mother-in-law, Janie was all about the traditional meal.  She would cook a turkey breast with all the trimmings and we would gather at her house for dinner.  This will be our 6th Thanksgiving with Janie not at the table, our meals there have never been the same.  I remember our first Thanksgiving without her, none of us were in the mood for the traditional foods so we had squirrel and steaks! Yes, you read that right - squirrel!! Squirrel gravy is sooooo good. For Tommy and I this is our 2nd Thanksgiving without Bennett being able to be with us. It makes the day have a different feel to it now.

I think back to history class as a child learning about the first Thanksgiving meal.  I wonder how many of us would be willing to invite someone who is different from us to the table, to share a meal - laughter - conversation.  This takes me back to the beginning of my writing today and the title of my post
 "Three important days in November...what about the other 362".

Our words and actions are important everyday of the year.  Don't just rant about who you hate have a conversation. Don't just think a Veteran one time a year. Don't worry about the Thanksgiving meal or when it is just enjoy the time with those you love.

   Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul.  Love your neighbor as yourself.

                                                                         Love Wins.

Breaking Bread by the river as the traffic drove by

Each Tuesday evening we gather, anxious to see who our guest will be for the evening.  So far I have met Bobbie, Dave, David, Michael, Mike, Tony, Amy, Louis, Denny, Tim, Mary, Travis, Clark, Freedom, Patrick, Peter, Patricia, Ashley, Laura, and Jack. A few others have come but have not spoken with me.

When I arrived this evening, Lawton was hard at work at the grill cooking hot dogs and hamburgers.  Two six foot tables were out and they were filled with food.  Nearby we placed the take-away meals, bottles of water, hot coffee, blankets stacked neatly, toiletries in small bags, the resource folder and bibles.  Each week we offer these items to our guest to help make their load a little lighter.

I turned and was surprised to see our local government officials.  My immediate thought was why are they here, I went through the proper channels to get approval for the Homeless Outreach.  I greeted the Mayor and asked the commissioner that I have met previously if I was in trouble, were they there to shut us down.  He responded with a smile, oh no, we are here to see what you are doing and show our support.  Wow! That was a relief.  I met the other commissioners and shared with them about the work we offer each week to our guest.  Soon a few of the guest were coming over to say hi and share about their week with me and introducing themselves to the lady beside me.  I'm sure they didn't know her title and at that moment it didn't matter. She stepped away and wiped the tears from her eyes.

Usually I don't make any big announcements but tonight we had so much going on that I wanted to make sure all of our guest new what the hour held.  I saw one of the nurses taking someones blood pressure and was thankful in such a short amount of time trust was being built.

We shared our meal together and for many I noticed how hungry they were.  Thankful that seconds were offered (thirds if they could hold them).  For the first time we suggested that we move to another area to hear some music and the offering of communion.  Some stayed back and observed from a distance, others eagerly walked to the smaller spot.  Music was shared, conversations were had, food continued to be consumed then came the time for communion.  My friend, Markus, is a pastor down the road from the park and he had said yes when I asked would he come and share the offering of communion with us. As Marcus began to talk, I noticed that Denny walked away.  Just far enough to be away from the group.  The bread was broken and the cup was filled.  They came.  My heart so full I could hardly get the words out to each of them. Patrick came first, you see he lives in his car but knows who holds him each day. Next was Freedom, tonight was his first night.  He lives in a storage building after losing his job 2 months ago. He had shared with me earlier in the evening how he wished he knew what God had planned for his life.  Each one, Markus asked their name and spoke words of grace, hope and love to them.  Amy came, her eyes locked on Markus and each word he said.  You could see her taking in that Jesus loves her. She dipped her bread in the chalice - the blood of Jesus shed for her.  Clark rolled up in his wheelchair, his heart overflowed as he took the bread then reached and drank from the cup.  Drinking from the cup desiring more than just a dip.  The bread continued to be broken and dipped in the cup.  Another felt the desire to drink from the cup this person a volunteer whose heart is broken for the broken in spirit.  They came one by one, you see here title doesn't matter.  The gift of Christ is extended to all.  He gave his life as a gift for all.  Never in my life have I broke bread with such a beautiful group of God's creation.  From the doctor to the panhandler in this moment we are all the same. As the group continued to sing I walked back to where Denny was standing, then I noticed the tears streaming from his eyes, the napkin in a wad.  I told him I was so glad he had come tonight, he said so was he.

                         Michael said, I'm overwhelmed by the generosity of you all here this evening.

On the way home I heard the song by Sidewalk Prophets called "Live Like That".  Reminding me, I wanna live like that...

Breaking bread with the broken offering the healer...yeah, I wanna live like that.

Paths that Cross

This afternoon I met a client of mine after she got off work.  We were meeting to discuss our new Transitional Housing program.  You see this client, my friend, Raye, is homeless.  But today wasn't just any day today is her birthday.  So we celebrated...we enjoyed an early dinner, conversation, another friend stopped by to wish her a happy birthday too.  We all enjoyed a good laugh.  But, the best part was when we all took the time to share how thankful we are that God has allowed our paths to cross.

 Raye shared how she is so thankful she knows that God was always with her but allowed the decisions she made so she could see Him in her life now, and know that he is leading each day of her life.  He led her to me, which led her to the other friend, Sally, who joined us too.
I marvel all the time not at my journey but how on my journey I have been blessed and fortunate to cross paths with so many different people.  People who are not in most folks "typical" surroundings, which leads to my next thought.

This past week as I drove, walked, or rode in my community I prayed to intentionally see something different in my surroundings.  Here are some of my observations;
 a 20-something couple sharing a brief hug and kiss on the corner,
 the man at the war memorial who bowed his head and stood at parade rest,
 the senior walking her dog,
 the young man with his pants barely covering his behind,
 the three 30-40 something guys sharing coffee, conversation and laughter at the table next to me,
 people talking to strangers - offering a hug, prayer, food, conversation,
my dog so happy as I picked him up from the kennel,
an artist,
an overwhelming burden as the homeless walked into the library on Wednesday morning
....ironically as I type the stereo is playing the melody of "these are a few of my favorite things".

Paths that cross...strangers become friends...friends for a season, friends for a lifetime...so many are unwilling, afraid, have no time, don't take the time to see all the paths they cross each day, each moment.

Take a deep breath, sit a spell - sip some tea, allow your eyes and hearts to be opened to see a new path for the day for the journey.

So much going through this head of mine....

Whew, the past few weeks have brought joy, heartache, more joy, sorrow, the roller coaster of life.  I've wanted to take the time to write over the past week but there just hasn't been a free moment to really get my thoughts together.  I still don't think my thoughts are together enough to make sense of all that is rolling around in my mind but I have to start somewhere and a counselor friend of mine told me many years ago to start by writing and just write, so here it goes.

My dad is well my Dad! He is the Skipper and I am Gilligan.  Over the past few weeks we found out that he has non-alcoholic cirrhosis of the liver.  His current liver function is about 25% and he was carrying around over 50 pounds of fluid (plasma) in his body cavity.  Today we learned he has lost 40lbs in 3 weeks and the doctor wants him to loose another 20 in about the same speed.  Dad has had type 2 diabetes for 28 years.  Over this time he hasn't been the best eater or person to exercise. In turn this helps to bring about NASH, fatty liver then to the NACL.  So needless to say Skipper needs to make some changes.  I'm no where near ready to say farewell to my daddy but that is never in our hands and we are never ready to say so long to those we love. So this is a huge part of my roller coaster...looking up recipes, offering to cook, checking out sodium quantities, researching on the web - yes I know that is why we have doctors but it doesn't hurt to read. I love my Dad and he loves me!

Marshall Bailey was a guy I went to high school with, we were friends over 25 years ago.  He was killed by a person he and his partner, who has also passed away, had just arrested and put in there squad car. Gone...all 3 of them.  Sorrow.

Greg, was a friend of my friend Kris.  He had been a homeless person in our community.  Kris and her husband Keith had befriended him months ago.  He was no longer homeless, had given his life to Christ but still fought the demon of alcohol.  The three of them recently tried in vain to get him assistance at one of our local hospitals, to be able to detox and go to rehab.  The hospital said they do not do a medical detox...he died.  His fight is over, he has eternally won. Sorrow...peace.

I held our first Homeless Outreach meeting, 23 people came, around 20 have made the commitment to be a part of this ministry each Tuesday beginning next week.  Last night 11 of us went to Nashville to observe The Bridge Ministry.  Candy began by taking a casserole to the homeless over 8 years ago under the bridge, now the ministry reaches several hundred a week.  We are taking our "casserole" to the River Walk park here in Bowling Green each Tuesday.  I pray for relationships to form, referrals to be made, lives to be forever changed. Joy

Over the past week at work HOTEL INC has been able to assist 7 people ( 2 families and 1 single WKU student) that were homeless to have a place to call home again.  Joy. We also said no to over 10 people that we do not have the funds for...this brings anguish to my soul.  One was a former students family....sorrow.

My husband and I now know that Kentucky will be our home, we are planning on forever.  We haven't had a "forever" thought for so many years that the thought of only moving one more time becomes a bit overwhelming.  Really, we might only do this one more time.  My friends will only have to white out my address one more time for their Christmas card list?  We shall see.  That is the plan for now.  God has provided us two wonderful jobs and the opportunity to have a "forever home".   Joy.

Our son put in for leave in November.  We haven't heard if he will get it yet.  Oh my gosh, really we might get to see him in November?!?! That will mean Thanksgiving with all the family and an early Christmas at the Miller house.  Ummm, I will need a Christmas tree, need to start searching for a tree farm and someone who would be willing to sell me a tree earlier than normal. JOY!

Life has always been a roller coaster to me.  Sometimes there are huge mountains that we seem to chug - chug- chug up forever, only to enjoy the view for a brief moment before we thunderously fly down to the valley, added by a loop de-loop ( I've never been able to put that emotion into words), only to repeat all of the previous then to come to a somewhat sudden stop to a slow crawl. And what do we do when we get off? We say, Wow that was awesome - let's do it again! Yep, life for me is a roller coaster.  I've learned so much by getting on and off of each one.  Some I seem to do over and over again, others I've walked away from knowing it was better to never get back on again. I also seem to look for just the right kind of adventurous coaster to ride too.

I relate my ride on the roller coaster of life to one of my favorite scriptures.  I'm not going to write it here,  I'll leave that for anyone who chooses to read this to search and read for yourself.  You will find the words in Isaiah 43: 2-4.

Peace, love and take a ride on the roller coaster of life!

Give Away Your Life

For over 2 years now I have had the desire to spend time on a regular basis with those who live on the streets.  Not to tell them they need to make the choices I make, to live like me but to begin a friendship and maybe just maybe they may see a hint of Jesus in me.  As I write that sentence I feel as though some may think I am boasting.  It is not that, it's just I'm sure people I encounter each day do not always see Jesus in me, because I am not always being the person he has asked me to be.

I've wrestled all week with the words "Beauty in the Broken".  We are currently working on an piece of art to unveil during Hunger and Homeless week in November.  Kris, the photographer, told me she chose a particular spot in the chapel to shoot each picture because this spot reflected the beauty in the broken. If only we could all see the beauty we are missing out on each day.

Today, I'm traveling to Nashville to meet with the leader of The Bridge Ministry.  Tomorrow, I will lead our first meeting for our Homeless Outreach at HOTEL INC.  I don't know what to expect, who will show, but I know that God has a greater plan - a plan of life for us to live and live with others.

As I am reading in the book of Luke this morning the title of the text begins to resonate with me " Give Away Your Life". The words pierce, prod and promise me.  Then I begin to look through other pages of Luke and the titles of An Event for Everyone, Blessings, Son of Adam - Son of God, Tested by the Devil, To Set the Burdened Free, He Healed them All, Push Out into Deep Water, Invitation to a Changed Life, You're Blessed, Work the Words into Your Life, Is this what You were Expecting,  His Touch, Keep it Simple, Bread and Fish for Five Thousand, Don't Run from Suffering, Your Business in Life, Defining " Neighbor", Ask for What you Need, Keep your Eyes Open, Can't Hide Behind a Religious Mask, Steep Yourself in God Reality, The Way to God, Invite the Misfits, Figure the Cost, The story of the Lost Sheep, The story of the Lost Coin, The story of the Lost Son, God sees behind Appearances, A Rich Man and Lazarus, A Kernel of Faith, Zacchaeus, God's Personal Visit, All Intimacies will be with God, Get Ready for Trouble, The Road to Emmaus.  This is not all of them for the story of birth, death and resurrection are in the book of Luke too but these titles...today these titles beckon me.

I could write a story about each of the titles above and maybe someday I will but for this moment I just reread them and allow the words to penetrate my soul. I am reminded of my true genealogy, of miracles, of walking away, of redeeming love, of moving beyond my self and my selfishness, of blessings, of no discrimination, of the cost.

Lord, make me an instrument of you.  Your love, your kindness, your grace so that I may always see the beauty in the broken and be willing to give away my life, for you.       amen

A Hike in the Rain

For the last several weeks I haven't felt well.  Nothing serious just not feeling my normal self.  Over the weekend I began to feel much better and today I awakened to no pain, lots of energy and an excitement over both.  I text a friend to see if she would like to join me for a mid-morning hike.  She herself wasn't feeling very well so I decided to go anyway. I had no idea it was raining! My destination was Lost River Cave.
I've never taken the time to stop at the Cave and boy have I been missing out.  I can't wait to go back on a day that it is not raining to be able to enjoy all of the aspects of nature there.  Maybe, I will take the boat ride too.
I chose a simple hike of 2.5 miles so I could see the Blue Holes.  I knew from having been to Yellowstone and seeing the Geyser's that the Blue Holes would be water holes from the underground river.  So today I enjoyed three of them.  At first I thought it was a fish that had jumped up but on second look it was the largest frog I've ever seen.  He had the kind of legs my grandpa would have went giggin' for!  And there sound was different from any I'd ever heard before, a higher pitched voice.
There was a small detour to see the Lost River spring.  It was worth the detour.  It reminded me of the water the springs from the side of the mountain in Pocahontas County, WV.  So clear it doesn't even show up in the pictures I took.  Running as a small waterfall down the knoll of rocks to the underground river.

I will journey back there...for it is a quiet place to sit, put your toes in the water and just enjoy a small part of God's creation.

I look forward to another hike even if it's in the rain. The raindrops falling through the leaves kissing the wildflowers that grow in the deep woods were a gentle reminder...I'm never alone.

Making a Statement that is heard by Few

Today possibly millions of people went and stood in line or sat in the car for hours to buy a chicken sandwich all because the CEO's son made a statement in an interview that they agreed with.

I am using my blog that will not be read or seen by millions, thousands or hundreds to share some of my statements.

1 in 4 children in Kentucky are going hungry.

I've spoken to 4 homeless families living in their vehicles over the past two weeks and I have no housing options to suggest to them. The waiting list are up to 2 years long.

Human trafficking currently involves 27 million victims in the world.

There is no where you can live in the United States on $7.25 an hour.

Over 88,000 military families use SNAP benefits (food stamps).

Matthew 25: 34-40, The Message
Then the King will say to those on his right, "Enter, you who are blessed by my Father!Take what's coming to you in this kingdom. It's been ready for you since the world's foundation. And here's why: I was hungry and you fed me, I was thirsty and you gave me a drink, I was homeless and you gave me a room, I was shivering and you gave me clothes, I was sick and you stopped to visit, I was in prison and you came to me." "Then those 'sheep' are going to say, 'Master, what are you talking about? When did we ever see you hungry and feed you, thirsty and give you a drink? And when did we ever see you sick or in prison and come to you?' Then the King will say, "I'm telling the solemn truth: Whenever you did one of these things to someone overlooked or ignored, that was me - you did it to me.'
vs. 41-43 - "Then he will turn to the 'goats', the ones on his left, and say, 'Get out, worthless goats! You're good for nothing but the fires of hell. And why? Because - I was hungry and you gave me no meal, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, I was homeless and you gave me no bed, I was shivering and you gave me no clothes, sick and in prison, and you never visited.'
paraphrase of vs 44 - The goats go on to ask Jesus what are you talking about when did we ever see you hungry, thirsty, homeless, shivering, sick or in prison and didn't help?
vs45 " He will answer them, 'I'm telling the solemn truth: Whenever you failed to do one of these things to someone who was being overlooked or ignored, that was me - you failed to do it to me.'

Today as millions stood as "one" with a person's statement, I'm left to wonder where they will be standing in line tomorrow and the next day and the next. I imagine there will be no lines at soup kitchens, prisons, food pantry's, hospitals, nursing homes, or rooms being made available but today their stomach was filled.

I'm only one person but this I know.  God created us all in His image to bring glory to him!

The Great Divide needs Love

I've noticed more and more over the past few years the "great divide" that is between Christians.  One of the most notable things to me is there is never an argument over who loved someone more or better.  I think because their is no love in the protest, name calling, hate spewing words that come from either side.

White, black, foreign, immigrant, christian, agnostic, addict, fundamentalist, right, left, gay, straight, single, loud, shy, divorced, married, Baptist, widow, rich, poor, middle class, Methodist, disabled, liberal, artistic, Catholic,moderate, slim, Presbyterian, obese, fit, Episcopalian, healthy, tattooed, sick, Unitarian, farmer, cancer, autistic, military, intelligent, alcoholic, bi-racial, adopted,opinionated, follower, non-denominational, pastor, homeless

These mostly single words are one word descriptions of friends and family of mine. We are different, we are similar, we agree, we disagree...

Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul. Love your neighbor as yourself - Jesus

This verse speaks beyond the protest, name calling and hate...LOVE

Teatime Thoughts: Conversations

Teatime Thoughts: Conversations: Since I no longer live on a farm, I've decided to have a new blog, Teatime Thoughts . I hope it will be interactive as many times my though...

Conversations

Since I no longer live on a farm, I've decided to have a new blog, Teatime Thoughts.
I hope it will be interactive as many times my thoughts lead to questions and maybe you will have an answer or opinion.
One of the questions I've had for sometime now is, why do we no longer have conversations?  By this I mean we "talk" by texting, posting on facebook or twitter and think we know everything that is currently going on in our "friend's" lives.  In these conversations that I think we are missing out on, I also wonder when we stopped being able to agree to disagree.  Instead now we seem to live in a life of attack. No longer willing to see a different view of the picture. Years back, a friend of mine and myself had been raised in two different countries in two very different styles of church and homelife.  We had some shared beliefs and practices and some we were on different sides of the fence about but it was in our differences that I grew (and I think she did too) as a person and our friendship blossomed.  Challenged to think about more than myself, more than the culture I grew up in, more than my parents or childhood pastor had taught me...I had to pray, read, discuss, discover and grow into who I am today.  I'm glad I am not the person I was 1, 3, 5, 10, 20+ years ago...and I think it is because I truly love to have a conversation.  A time of listening and a time of speaking.